Co-Dependent Buddy
I joined a social group a year ago wanting to meet more people my age and found a wonderful bond with someone. We’ve become great friends and hang out all the time – until recently. They’re now being friendly one minute and then distant the next. I’m so confused. I don’t know what’s going on with them and I feel stuck as to what should I do next?
I joined a social group a year ago wanting to meet more people my age and found a wonderful bond with someone. We’ve become great friends and hang out all the time – until recently. They’re now being friendly one minute and then distant the next. I’m so confused. I don’t know what’s going on with them and I feel stuck as to what should I do next?
I joined a social group a year ago wanting to meet more people my age and found a wonderful bond with someone. We’ve become great friends and hang out all the time – until recently. They’re now being friendly one minute and then distant the next. I’m so confused. I don’t know what’s going on with them and I feel stuck as to what should I do next?
I can help answer this question for you. Sometimes people go through personal challenges that affect their behaviour. Give them the space to open up about what might be going on in their life. Maintaining a positive and understanding attitude when you do connect, as you suggested, can indeed create an atmosphere of openness and comfort. This approach can let your friend know that you value the connection and are willing to give them the space they need without showing frustration or annoyance, etc… Grab your online answers today!
